
My little sister got married over the weekend. (You can see their engagement pictures and slideshow, done by
my incredible wife,
here.) It was a great day, and everything went pretty well for the most part. The weather was great for the outdoor pictures, and the ceremony was a God-honoring time celebrating his ordained institution of marriage. I especially loved the vows my sister and her husband chose to use (they're the same ones my wife and I used as well). I'm not sure who originally wrote them, as my wife and I borrowed them from some friends of ours whose wedding we attended right before our engagement.
This was the 2nd wedding we'd been to recently where a couple used these vows, and I loved the chance to hear them read again and remind me what I promised to Leah over 3 years ago. I've kept them written down and read them every so often, but hearing them read and repeated by a new couple was a treat, especially because it was my little sister.
So I thought in honor of their wedding, and to remind myself once again what I promised to my beautiful wife, I'd post the vows on here. To remind myself, I'm leaving mine and Leah's names in. Feel free to use them should you be getting married anytime soon. I think they embody biblical truth well, but at the same time apply those truths in a very practical way. Enjoy!
And Congratulations Belinda and Mike. I love you guys!
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I, Matthew…take you, Leah… to be my treasured wife.
By the grace of God, I promise to be the spiritual leader in our home.
I want lay down my life, and will for you as Christ did for the church.
I promise to guard your best interests, to provide for your needs, and to love you with all that I am.
I commit to never stop serving you, romancing you, or encouraging you
to hold your own walk with Christ as the highest priority.
I give you my purity and promise to be faithful to you and you alone.
All that I have, and all that I am, I now give to you.
Whatever hardships or joys may come, may I keep these vows,
and strive towards the perfection of them till death should part us.
I, Leah… take you, Matthew… to be my treasured husband
By the grace of God, I promise to respect your spiritual leadership in our home.
I desire to encourage you in your dreams, and to support you
in whatever the Holy Spirit calls you to do
I commit to walk in step with you, to admire you, and to serve you in daily life,
to encourage you to hold your own walk with Christ as the highest priority.
I desire to create a home where you are respected and esteemed,
and I commit to joyfully submit to your authority.
I give you my purity, and promise to be faithful to you and you alone.
All that I have, and all that I am, I now give to you.
Whatever hardships or joys may come, may I keep these vows,
and strive towards the perfection of them till death should part us.